The Gaulthair Children

My other blog, Missing Pieces: The Gaulthair Children needed attention. We are at a standstill on the other children that we have not found but the relationships between the siblings grow each day. It is a blessing to see that these people who were strangers becoming the brothers and sisters that they were meant to be. The Family History Writing Challenge has consumed my thoughts but we are still actively seraching for the other Gaulthair kids. I recently shared links on Facebook and Pinterest for two people who were looking for their birth parents. Now I think I will create a post and do the same. The other kids are out there, we just need to use the Internet for a broader search.

Book is written

This is an interesting idea. I wrote the book about everything I know about the Gaulthair children. Using Scrivener, I created the book and then went to Create Space to publish it. I don't think it's good enough to be considered a real book but for the people involved in this story, I wanted to give them something they could refer to and maybe to spark their memories. I also wanted to put all the information in one place and to help explain what happened because no one will ever know why. I am on the final edit and will post the link to Amazon when it goes live.

Picked a publisher

Good, bad or indifferent, I picked a publisher for the Gaulthair story. I went with Create/Space. Not one to read tutorials, I muddled through on my own. Darned if I didn't find a mistake as soon as it was locked for review. Still, I like it because even when it is published, I can correct it or add info if I find more. I was in a bit of a hurry because I want to send these as Christmas gifts to the Gaulthair children and felt that I was running out of time. I have not given up on finding more information and Karolene has yet to send me the pictures she promised. I am hoping there are more clues there.

Intrigue, lies and a story of real people affected by one woman's decisions

I have been following The Armchair Genealogist for a little while now. It is all about how to write your family history on a blog. I have several blogs but find it difficult to keep up with them. Lynn Palermo does a great job of breaking down the steps from blog to book. With that in mind, I am going to start blogging the never-ending-story of our family history. I really want to turn it into a book. I know, my family history is my family history and maybe not as interesting to you as it might be for me. I can promise intrigue, lies and a story of real people affected by one woman's decisions. It is the search for my husbands missing siblings. There are at least 13 of them and we have found 8. It may be a never-ending-story because finding these kids gets more and more difficult every day.
Frank Arnold Gaulthier was born on Feb 13, 1896 in Lansing, Iowa. In the 1905 Iowa Census, the family was still living there. Several states over Mabel Myrtle Morgan was born on June 7, 1906. In 1910, both families had moved with the Gaulthier’s going to La Crosse, WI and the Morgan’s taking up residence in West Virginia. We don’t know anything about these families other than their meeting was the catalyst for the this story.

Wisconsin was in the midst of a heat wave on September 25, 1925, when Lida Mary Gaulthair was born. There was not much going on in the world. Hitler was making noises in Germany but World War 1 was over. Calvin Coolidge was the President of the United States and it would be several years before the Great Depression. In La Farge, Wisconsin, none of it mattered very much as the families went about their day to day tasks.
In 1925, Frank Arnold and Mabel Myrtle Gaulthair had one living child. Little Louisa had passed away at 28 days when she had been taken to bed by her mother who rolled over and smothered her. She died of asphyxiation but the death certificate read “Acute Gastro Enkhitis”. Doc Haggerty was a family friend.
Violet was three when Lida came home. They had a new brother in 1927 but he died at three months due to bronchial pneumonia as a complication of the flu. It looked like that was it but in 1928 Frank Lee Gaulthair made his entrance. He was called “Jackie” by the family.

They seemed like a any normal 1920’s family. Dad was a laborer on the Wisconsin State Road Aid and made a decent wage. They lived in a two-story four bedroom house on Welsh Street with plenty of space for the children to play. They were surrounded by family, Frank’s parents lived nearby and Mabel’s mother and father were next door. Frank’s sister, Sophia and her brood, lived a couple blocks away on Main Street. La Farge only had one school so the kids went together.

By 1940, Frank Arnold was no longer working. Injured in WWI, medical issues had sidelined him. Mabel’s father still lived next door but her mother had passed away. Sophia Kendall, with her husband and kids, moved to California for better jobs during the depression. Violet was married and living in Minneapolis, leaving 13-yr-old Lida and 10-yr-old Jackie at home. Still, there were many kids around. Some of them would become part of Lydia’s story but while all of this swirls around her, it is not her story.
This is about the 13 children who were unnamed and abstracts in a story that spanned decades. This is the search for the Gaulthair children.

I am in a holding pattern

I need to figure out how to find the court records. Karolene says she will send me info but I am not going to push it. I need to learn patience. In the meantime, we sent in the DNA sample for Gary. Ancestry.com only allows one at this time. We are looking to verify his Native American identity. However, if there are other Gaulthair relatives out there who have also done the DNA testing, it might provide us with new clues. Now, I have to wait for that too.

No wonder no one is talking

It seems the more we learn, the more bizarre this gets. Karolene tells me that Lydia went to jail when she abandoned them. She also tells me that Lydia stabbed her second husband which I thought would be Denver Powell. However, she tells me that Denver was not Patty's father, that some guy named Trapp was. I can't find him. She also said that Lydia spent three years in prison for manslaughter. She stabbed the man who beat her. It was apparently somewhere in California. New stuff to track and verify. Since we have some time gaps, if she really killed someone it could be Frances or David's father. More and more mystery.

Once again, God has smiled on us

We now not only have proof that the Rickman kids were Lydia's but I had the opportunity to speak with both of them. Karolene has information that we were not aware of and was with lydia when she passed away. They know their mom as Lida so they were not around when she changed her name to Lydia. We now have a total of eight confirmed children. Karolene says that Lydia had nine husbands. We know of seven but only have five names. That is a big clue and means I need to do more research. Darla sent over some pictures of other children and we don't know who they are. If there were two more men, then these are probably more brothers and sisters. You have to wonder if there is an end to this?

Live and learn

Once you have a little success, you want more. We found Darla and David or, Darla found us. Heady with success, I waited but nothing else happened. Then, my story was featured on "The Armchair Genealogist". It is a blog I read sporadically but I had not spent the time to really take in all the information she has and continues to post. What I learned was to ask researchers in the historical societies across the country to do the research for me. They are surprisingly affordable and very easy to work with. This was an eye-opener for me when I found that I could get information 3000 miles away without having to leave home. I started with the Richland County History Room in Richland, Wisconsin. They found a picture of Patricia Powell from high school and confirmed that she was indeed a Gaulthair. Nita (my researcher) also suggested that I ask the La Crosse Library if they had any information. The La Crosse Library has a form that you can submit. I was skeptical but filled out my question and sent it on in. Within two days, I had a response. Mr. Peterson told me that he didn't have the information I needed but he had found a newspaper clipping about the parents. This was more helpful than he realized because Frank Gaulthair divorced Mable while she was in the Racine Asylum. This is the first hint of mental illness that might help to explain Lydia's behavior. He attached the article to an e-mail and now we have it for our records. Today, I heard from the Vernon County Library. Carol not only found records that verify that Karolene and Gerald are related, she said she also had marriage records. We thought that Lydia went from man to man without the benefit of marriage and now we know even more. We should receive the documentation next week and I can't wait to get it.

Darla and David

Just when you think that you have hit a brick wall, a crack appears. We came home form our meeting with Ricky and Frances to a message from a lady named Darla who said she was also a Gaulthair child. Not only that, she had a half brother named David. It was shocking. We were looking for David and here was Darla, a surprise and a treat. Two more children who were related and now finding each other. Needless to say, David, Darla, Rick, Frances and Gary are now sharing their lives, grateful to have found each other.

The photo is the infamous Lydia with David and Darla just before she walked out of their lives.

1st meeting

July 2, 2012 was an interesting day. We had already gone to bed at the Benton Hot Springs Campground when we heard a voice calling "Gary". For the first time, Gary, Rick, and Frances found that what had always been an abstract was indeed very real. Rick and Frances stopped being faces in a photo graph and became flesh and blood. The photo was taken about 11:00 pm and everyone was tired but you couldn't tell. In the picture are Frances, Esther (the new cousin), Rick, and Gary. There was a lot of hugging and crying and I must say that Gary is delighted to have a new family and they are delighted to add him.

Kendall/Gaulthier family

I have a lot of information for future family to share. Not only did I do my immediate family that is Rhea/Yeakley, I did the Dowland/Galbraith for my kids to include their dad's side of the family. Then I started on the Kendall/Hinds family knowing that my husband was adopted but doing the family who loved and raised him. These people may not completely be his biological family but they are family nevertheless. In the mix of the Kendall family is Gary's biological mother. She was his adoptive mother's cousin. Lydia Mary Gaulthair had many children. Gary was always aware of the two closest in age because we have a picture of them. He always wondered what happened to them. This is a big puzzle to put together and is getting bigger the more we find. We did find Frances and Enrique but then learned from other family members that there was a least one more.